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Remembering the importance of state

This afternoon I grabbed a coffee with Greg Layton. Greg and I went to school near each other and even studied business at the same time, though it was NLP that finally led us to meet. He had spent a few months training with my good friends Chris and Jules Collingwood, taking out his Graduate Certificate in Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and as he shared with me his inspiring experiences, I was reminded of the importance of state.

Sometimes we are happy; sometimes we are excited; sometimes we are not so resourceful – some of us might even be a bit grumpy from time to time. That state – our subjective emotional condition – opens and closes possibilities. It’s like a pair of sunglasses that tints the way we see the world.

And for colour blind people like me, those filters change what we can see at all.

Greg reminded me how important it is that we can get back into our core state of being.

It’s about alignment. We can be happier and more fulfilled when we deliberately design our experiences and our lives so that we can move towards that core state consistently.

When the teacher is ready…

When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.

It’s a simple enough concept – when you are ready to learn something new, someone will arrive to help take you to the next level.

When the teacher is ready, the students will appear.

Again, a fairly simple concept – an ironic reversal of the previous statement, reflecting how when you are ready to share knowledge, students will find their way to you.

However, a few days ago, Joanna Hsu was kind enough to share with me a new insight on this old and delightful notion. That not only are these phrases similar in structure, but that they are actually equivalent in meaning. As ‘real’ teachers are not just telling people what to think, but rather they are called to demonstrate that which they purport to know, both the role of teacher and student are learning processes; when a ‘teacher’ is ready to learn by demonstrating their skills to ‘students’, individuals will present themselves to the ‘teacher’ to help them learn – to take them to the next level.

As we are perpetually and simultaneously both students and teachers, we can remember that when we come across an interesting or challenging student, we are being called to demonstrate.

I have a new toy

Like my Redfly

Just like mine...

I love gadgets. For years, I obsessed about Palm Pilots… and I ended up having seven of them before moving to smartphones. When I got my 8Gb MicroSD six months ago for my HTC TyTN II mobile phone, I was almost as stoked as when I got my old favourite ThinkOutside bluetooth folding keyboard. But my Redfly mobile companion (from Celio Corp) tops the lot!

It’s a simple concept: Take your high-powered mobile phone and give it a decent screen, a keyboard and a long battery life. Use the processor and memory inside your phone and finally get to use the full power of this device you carry around all the time instead of lugging around a laptop.

It took four days to make the journey across the Pacific (from Salt Lake City to Shanghai) to arrive in my eager hands… and just a few minutes to find a suitable cable to plug it in and get it turned on.

So far so good… actually, so far sooo amazing!!!

Something that I really love about it is how easy it has been to use. Great design: Easy, intuitive and smooth. So much so that I might not even bother with a keypad on my next phone…

It really disappointed me when Palm lacked the confidence to back itself with the Foleo, only to be beaten with huge stick of regret when the Asus Eee PC was released weeks later (damn Engadget!)… and wonderful that I can now get the same kind of thing – even if it is a year later!

Upgrading the software for your mind

We talk a lot about software for your mind as a metaphor for your thought patterns – cultivating emotions (like compassion, tenacity, playfulness, love etc) or refining our thinking skills (creativity, learning, problem solving…)

However there’s some great software out there. One of them – Mindjet’s MindManager is sensational! It helps you organise, implement and communicate your ideas and concepts. I’ve just fallen in love with it (and their viewer that comes with a 5-day trial of the full software): Now I want a version for my smartphone…

If you’re looking for a more metaphorical software upgrade, I like the Four Hour Work Week generally, and particularly this post on Tim’s blog about finding your rhythm for peak creativity. His ChangeThis manifesto is pretty cool too. Though if you want a more-easily accessed stimulus for creativity, try sitting for a few hours in the couches of the Grand Cafe on the 54th floor of Jin Mao as I did this afternoon… truly inspiring!

Who is John Galt?

The New York Times has just published an article acknowledging the role played by Ayn Rand in the thinking of modern capitalists. My Grandfather gave me The Fountainhead when I was an arrogant 13-year-old with a warning that the first half was boring but the second half made it worthwhile. He was right on both counts.

While “the virtue of selfishness” might be very unpopular as a phrase, I was transformed by this book and still have it together with my Grandfather’s copy of Atlas Shrugged in a special place in my bookcase at home.

It’s not a complete philosophy. Assumptions arrogantly taken for “axioms” are adopted by ignorant idealogues undermine the intellectual integrity that Objectivists purport to uphold. However, as James M. Kilts is quoted as noting in the NYT article, Ayn Rand’s works uphold a very important value that has few other sources:

“that excellence should be your goal”

Spiritual masters, NLPers and psychologists are largely and unusually in agreement (though they won’t let you know!): Self-actualisers, prime mover geniuses and happy “ordinary” people everywhere live in accordance with the vision that Rand had for the world… rather than being the victim of what other people want for you or think of you, may we all take personal responsibilty for how you feel, what you think and the life that you live.

Be excellent.

Mysteries, Puzzles, Enron and Confusing contracts

Mysteries and puzzles are very different.

Puzzles are solved by finding out more information – so if you want to find a terrorist, knowing what part of which mountain in which country he is hiding in will help. Mysteries carry with them an intrinsic amount of ambiguity, uncertainty and incomplete information, so that resolution is not so much dependent upon the information available as the skills of those interpreting the available information. Mathematically, a puzzle might be like a solution for simultaneous equations while a mystery might be more like a series of Nash equilibrium points for dynamic, changing and uncertain variables linked by equally dynamic and uncertain functions.

Malcolm Gladwell, author of The Tipping Point, Blink, New Yorker columnist... TEDster and pretty cool thinkerI was thinking (in response to Malcolm Gladwell’s article in The New Yorker) about how Enron was more a mystery than a puzzle. Skilling was convicted on fraud charges on the basis that he had not disclosed “sufficient” information, yet all the information had already been disclosed – the problem was that it was so complicated that nobody could understand what was written. Certainly the disclosures were complicated, yet it does seem strange that when the right person loses money because they didn’t understand what they were doing with their money they are able to take advantage of the criminal system to exact vengence on those that created the offered the opportunity to invest.

Australia is no better. Our Commonwealth Bank (amongst many other institutions) offers small business owners the opportunity to receive payments via credit cards. They charge a reasonable fee for this service, yet they offer the merchant virtually no security for the merchant. Their simplest form allows a merchant – such as a small mailorder company – to simply submit the credit card number and expiry date to the provider. Provided that the twenty digits are valid and that account has available money in the account, the money will be received in your account the next morning. A merchant can collect the security codes, the signature, the address and even take a photocopy of the cards themselves, and yet cannot validate any of this information. Yet the bank doesn’t warn its customers of this – it is certainly contained within the Terms and Conditions amongst the other few hundred pages, but the information is not presented in a useful manner.

I believe that many modern contracts are invalid.

Contracts require a variety of elements to be satisfied. Throughout most of the world, a signature on a contract makes that contract binding – it is assumed that you have read, understood and accept the terms and conditions provided in writing. But do you really? I recently signed a document that I am told was a form of lease: but it was all in Chinese. Is that contract binding? Is the license agreement that you skimmed through or skipped altogether when you installed you last piece of software really binding on you?

Sure, according to the law as it is today, once you sign something it’s binding. Yet should it be? Those of you thinking that “the law is the law” perhaps forget how recently it was that we invented such concepts, and that it is policy – most often driven by commercial demands – that generate the policies that we come to take for granted and assume to be universal.

In the evolving world in which we live, let’s remember that we can make the future how we like. Let’s remember that when we can think of a way to make things better, we can share that message and see it realised… that the future is being created all around you – right now.

The Bootstrapper’s Bible

Business can be simple: It’s about creating more value than you use. But for those of us concerned about having to spend thousands of dollars to set up a business that may not go anywhere, Seth Godin has written this eBook about how there’s never been a better time to start a business with no money – I think this is fantastic, so have a look at it now!

Kidpreneurs!?!?!?!?

Gotta love it when a bank gets behind building entrepreneurs for the next generation… that’s the only way that jobs get created, and the only way that our society really grows sustainably! Great work Postbank/ ING!!!

  • In case you’ve been looking for an explanation of Web 2.0, here it is
  • And just imagine a premium public restroom – what?? Not in America, but in Paris… the whole idea is to provide a great environment and show off the products of the sponsor… call it tryvertising if you like. Great work!
  • Wiki is cool – very cool. It’s such an integral part of the modern internet that they have their own conferences… of particular interest is how internal wiki’s can work as rich knowledge base systems, already in use at Intel.
  • I also like this conversation with Seth Godin.

Great suit – want a better one?

I went to David Jones on Wednesday afternoon, anxious to compare the quality of shirts and suits available at our premium department store. I was staggered… I couldn’t believe how much better my company’s garments are!

Their ‘best’ suit was a $1195 Hugo Boss. It was a Super 100 wool, had pickstitching and was neatly finished. But it was obscenely mediocre. I’ve grown accustomed to wearing fine fabrics, bespoke tailored to my precise measurements, but I missed just how much better my company’s garments are. Their best, a grade of 100s, is at the bottom end of our range – you can have a suit that I think is as good or better than anything in the Department stores for $600 or even less.

And despite being from a German company, they were made in Turkey – we’re a 100% Australian owned company… go over and have a look if you haven’t already!

Ubersexuality and sugar and farewells

Sugar is bad for you… not just a little bit, but a lot. I used to love sugar: It’s time to let go. “My coffee” is an affogato – a short black with a generous scoop of icecream (ideally a doppio or double shot with three lovely scoops of fine ice cream, best served at The Three Monkeys in West End, though 16th on Park is good too… but I digress). It’s filled with sugar, caffeine and fat – and I love them. Yet I know that refined sugar is something that is killing me. It’s easy to break the addiction… just stop putting the damn stuff into my mouth!

Metrosexuality is so last season. It seems that we are finally encouraging men to be men… letting them stop waxing their chests and putting crap (I mean ‘product’) in their hair and realising that a men weren’t made to look like women. I’m an incurable romantic and passionate advocate for being pure of heart and focused on serving: I sense that we’re about to see a move towards valuing masculinity rather than hiding it… I think we’ll call it ‘ubersexuality‘. He’s hairer, smellier (think leather, cigars and the woods) and he’s more Martin Crowe than David Beckham.

I’m very proud to say that one of my karate students took out second in the world championships of the National All Styles competition. For a long time, I have criticised non-contact ‘contests’ as being dancing – making his success all the more remarkable! Travis has done us all proud… He didn’t know how to do it from day 1: Instead, he put 100% of his energy into every session and into every step along the way… he was training like a champion, like a black belt, from his first session. Maybe he’s aggressive – but we’re training to fight.

James Blunt’s “Goodbye My Lover” is playing again… it reminds me of a life changing few days at Kirribilli, walking along the beach at Manly on dusk, a broken spoon from Gelatteria at Circular Quay, Pancakes, The Rocks, Couran, China, Vaucluse… and perhaps a few broken promises. But most of all it reminds me of the lies that we tell ourselves… lies that take us away from the Truth and from Love.




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